Saturday, November 1, 2014

My first 50ShadesOfSexy post: (Are you ever too old to send a sexy selfie?)


We see them on Instagram, we see them on Facebook and we see them on tweeter.  Those sexy selfies that the young girls/women share for the world to see.  I like the fact that the younger generation loves their bodies and want to share them for the world, but sometimes it is a little too much.  Now as more mature women, we really do think about our kids and business associates and that maybe why we don’t share our great confidence with the world or are we a little too shy to share ourselves with the world?  Maybe it’s because we think that the world does not want to see us or is it that we get so intimidated by the young girls/women who have the amazing bodies.  
You don't have to go completley nude in sending a picture to your man.  

Well that does not go for your girl Kat.  Yes I said it.  I am not afraid to share the fact that I work hard to keep it together and my boyfriend loves to see it when he is out of town.  Let’s get to the story of how your girl came to share a few pictures with her boyfriend and not go too far.
A little black and white can be very sexy to him

 And the story goes like this:
One night I’m setting around working on ThriftyGurl Boutique after a hard day of working out all day.  I get a call from my boyfriend and he wants me to send him a picture of me in some sexy boots he purchased for me.  Well that night I was SO tired and I didn’t really want to get up out of my bed and get dressed to send a picture of myself to him (sounds familiar right?).  I thought about it for a while and my mind started to race.  What if he sees a girl/women at the hotel that is wearing those same exact boots (whore)?  What if one of his past girlfriends just wanted to reach out to him and send him something to remind him of what he had (and ladies it does happen)?  Or just what if he just missed me so much and loved me so much that the only person that would feel the void of what he is feeling was me?  Well ladies this is where we go wrong.  We think so damn much when we should just get our asses out of the bed and make our man happy before he finds someone at the bar that is more than willing to do it for us.  It’s not like he is asking us to build a house or have another baby at 50.  At that point I got my little butt up and put on those boots, slipped on a school girl mini, mini, mini skirt and put on that sexy bra and did my sexy thing.
Well ladies needless to say my man loved the pictures.  He was so happy that the last image that he say that night was a few pictures of me in something that he bought for me and I was confident to wear for him. 
So lesson #1 in this blog post is, don’t drop the ball when it comes to satisfying your man’s needs when he is out of town.  A man gets lonely and misses his family and his women so PLEASE women, what is so wrong about being that girlfriend you were when he first met you.
Keep it simple