Recently I was told by my single clients that I should become a dating coach. Whoever thought that just giving a friend a good confidence boost would turn into a possible career? I have always been the girlfriend that tries to guide my friends in the right direction and build their confidence level. Sometimes I don't even know I'm doing it. I once had on friend who dedicated a book he wrote to me and I had a young mother tell me that when she got pregnant she decided that she wanted to be just like me as a mother. No higher complement comes to you than that and I was so humbled by those two people. So that is why I have decided to take on that task. I have been working with a client of mine that has tried everything she could to catch that special man. I have given her so much great advice and she sees how my relationship with my boyfriend Tony is. She really likes the things she has sees and hears. I am working with her to create a life that she is having fun with and now we are going the extra mile. Meet your new 50ShadzOfSexy Dating Coach.
I'm loving this new addition to my company. Here is my first bit of advice for you ladies who aren't sure about how to let a man know you are interested.
How to Flirt with a Man:
- Show him special attention. This one is exactly the same for men as it is for women. The woman should put herself in the presence of a man as much as possible without making it obvious that she is doing so. Just like a man flirting with a woman, it is a delicate balance and needs to be handled carefully.
- Flirt with more than just your physical appearance. Guys are certainly much more visually stimulated than girls are, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t attracted to other aspects of a woman’s personality. In fact, guys are paying attention to how she acts in a variety of scenarios. The best thing a woman can do while in the presence of a man is to flirt with all of who she is (her physical appearance included) by being herself. Women who flirt with their bodies get exactly what they go fishing for: men who are only interested in the woman’s body.
- For example: If you are really good at hospitality, make sure a guy gets to see you in your element, enjoying making people feel at home and loved. If you are athletic, make sure he sees you playing the sport you love. If you enjoy being active in helping others, be sure he has the chance to observe you simply being yourself in areas you are comfortable in. Chances are you will not only catch his attention, but also inspire him as well.
- Flirting with one’s character requires the woman to be secure in who she is to begin with. If a man notices that the woman is at all pretending to be something she is not just to get his attention – she’s busted.
